Chess is a game of manipulation. Hiding what you are doing from the other almost all the time. In Rules of the Game, by Amy Tan, we are shown how this manipulation is a metaphor for the relationship between Waverly and his mother’s life, as each manipulates the other. Rules of the Game shows how Waverly eventually becomes a chess master, and how Waverly and her mother grow more distant with each other. Rules of the Games shows us how manipulation is used in the relationship between children and their parents when Waverly lies about wanting to go to a chess tournament, when she wants plums, and the consequences of what happens when she doesn’t manipulate her mother.
The first example we have of this is when Waverly wanted to go to a tournament. Waverly “desperately wanted to go, but [she] bit back [her] tongue. [She] knew she would not let [her] play among strangers. So as [they] walked home [she] said in a small voice that she didn’t want to play in the local tournament.” She knows that if she were to say that she wanted to go, then her mother would not allow her, being the stronger current, so she manipulate her mother into changing the current to allow her to go.
The second example we have of this is when Waverly wants to buy plums. Instead of straight up saying she wanted plums, which her mom would have opposed, she didn’t say anything at all, and her mom just picked up the plums anyway.
The third example we have of this is when Waverly doesn’t manipulate. Waverly’s mom tells all of the other people when they go shopping that her daughter is Waverly Jong. Waverly gets fed up and “[says] under [her] breath, “I wish you wouldn’t do that, telling everybody I’m your daughter.” Instead of getting what she wanted, her mother gets mad, telling all of her family members to ignore her.
Through how she says nothing when buying fruits, how she lies saying she doesn’t want to go to a tournament, and the consequences when she doesn’t go with the current, Waverly shows how children manipulate their parents.