In “A good man is hard to find” by Flannery O’Connor, there was a family that only cared about them selfs. So in the end, they got what they deserved. People are made selfish, but you can always change your actions and work towards being unselfish. There are somethings that you can do to work towards that goal.
First of all, Always listen to other people’s opinions when you want something different. For example, if one of your family members wants to go into one restaurant for you want to go to the other for lunch you can listen to their opinion and try to maybe persuade them. But do not lie or do something really bad just to support your own opinion, like the grandma in the book.
Second, when people say their opinions think deeply about it and don’t just go ahead and make a statement just because your opinion is different from them. You have to think about if they’re right or why do they think that way and listen to their reasoning carefully.
Lastly whenever you’re about to say something is sure just think about other people such as don’t exaggerate when talking about something important.
At the end that is what you have to do to not get your self into trouble like the grandma in the book.